Peolple need to get a grip

I wish in my life I could say that I have always been honest and fair.  But the truth is, like most people, I have done things that I wish I had not done.  I have never hurt anyone physcially.  But I have taken advantage of the trust placed in me by my family and friends.  Not, I am glad to say, for quiet a long while.  But there it is.  I have done so.  I have tried very very hard the last few years to do better.  And I have tried to make up for the wrongs I have done.  I hope and pray that I have become a better person.  But I get so angry when I see other people taking advantage of people that are close to me that have done them no wrong. 
So here is the deal.  You get 240.00 a week taken out of your paycheck twice a month.  This is for child support.  But your employeer never pays it to child support.  Because you trusted your employeer you have not gotten pay stubs.  You knew how much you earned and that minus what was supposed to go to child support was what you were getting paid twice a month.  Then all of the sudden, you get called into court because child support has not been getting paid.  You tell them your employeer has been withholding the money, but there is really nothing you can do because you have no pay stubs. Because you trusted your employeer.  You thought he was a friend. Guess not. So you make arrangments to get ALL your money and you will take care of the child support payments yourself.  Shouldn't your employeed either give you the 5200.00 dollars he withheld and didn't pay, or pay it to child support.  But he doesn't.  It is just wrong.  I hope the person that is doing this reaps the consequences.  I hope the person who is close to me gets there money.  I hope that I really have become a better person.